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We must examine each avenue of digital opportunity from a Christian perspective and determine how to align them with our faith. When we seek God’s will above ours, it will help us find creative ways to serve Him with each future solution these tools provide (Proverbs 3:5–6). It is essential to make sure that our pursuits remain as faultless as possible and to use our time wisely for the glory of God (Ephesians 5:16-18).

For example, the internet can be an avenue for evangelism (Mark 16:15), apologetics (1 Peter 3:15), organizing volunteer opportunities and missions (1 Corinthians 9:19-23), or finding platforms that help us better understand God’s Word (2 Timothy 3:16-17). First, however, we must acknowledge that the internet also presents distractions, dangers, and temptations that may lead believers astray (Isaiah 53:6).

With such a wide range of potential use cases, we must wield discretion and wisdom to figure out when a specific situation is favorable or when we need to exercise caution (James 1:5). Above all else, we must learn to distinguish between unreasonable activities and sensible options. Of course, many undertakings are not explicitly evil in and of themselves. Still, if those endeavors risk becoming an idol or do not give us a good return on the time we invest into them, it benefits us to get rid of them (1 Corinthians 6:9-10). Sometimes we have to say “no” to something good to say “yes” to something greater. (1 Corinthians 10:23-24).

Through social media, we can interact with a wide range of individuals, including family, friends, acquaintances, and even strangers. However, it may also detract from pursuing a smaller quantity of higher-quality relationships in person. We may neglect face-to-face interactions with individuals right before us when immersed in it. Furthermore, many of us have caught ourselves looking at our phones and examining these connections while ignoring the loved ones we surround ourselves with. Instead, we must give those in person our undivided attention and deliberately avoid scrolling away aimlessly. Using social media is not intrinsically wrong, but as with many things in life, we must exercise careful moderation to maintain control.

Artificial intelligence presents its share of ethical dilemmas. The advent of recent technology in this domain has led leaders to warn us about their concerns. Over 1,000 tech leaders and researchers, including Elon Musk, have signed an open letter that urges a temporary halt to the ongoing and sophisticated advancements in the realm of A.I. (“Elon Musk and Others Call for Pause on A.I., Citing ‘Profound Risks to Society'”).

We must pay attention when advancement in any sector supersedes our ability to implement safety protocols and regulations. For instance, in the case of A.I., publicly available chatbots such as ChatGPT broke records for sign-ups after their inception. If these are freely accessible online, we can only imagine the power of more capable systems that have yet to be revealed. It is only natural to surmise that there must be real threats if some of the forerunners in the field are sounding alarm bells.

Christians should not fear such developments, but that does not mean we should advocate for ignorance (Isaiah 41:10). We know God is sovereign and in complete control, but trusting God and pursuing logical solutions are not mutually exclusive. Therefore, we should pursue boundaries, answers, and even fair-use cases to guarantee such tools serve rather than hinder us (Matthew 10:16).

For example, some of us may agree that a Pastor should not rely on ChatGPT to formulate a sermon because leaving that to a bot rather than God’s lead would be questionable. First, it may not fit his congregation’s unique needs, and more importantly, it might not be what God would inspire him to put together otherwise. So instead, I suggest avoiding substituting a bot’s insight for the Holy Spirit’s lead (John 14:26). 

Is it acceptable if someone is writing a Christian article and using a tool like ChatGPT to brainstorm potential topics and as a writing prompt? What about producing an outline for a specific subject to write about? It may be appropriate or even helpful to a point, but eventually, it becomes necessary to establish limitations depending on the use case. Using a chatbot to provide information without verifying its accuracy and alignment with Biblical principles can raise ethical and moral concerns.

The field is brand new and will undoubtedly become the topic of many upcoming conversations, in and out of the Church. Supporters of both sides may present compelling arguments, so we must prepare to tackle them. However, these innovations represent a small piece of the big picture in this field. As believers, we must navigate it all together (1 Corinthians 1:10). Part of that task will be determining what constitutes fair use and what amounts to abusing the technology.

What was once unimaginable just a decade or two ago has now become our everyday reality. Therefore, we must ask God for wisdom and discernment to determine a reasonable action for each issue. Part of that journey will include applying Biblical principles to the modern era, which is integral to our mission. It can be challenging to maintain compassion and empathy if we lack a clear understanding of the world we live in. While we do not want to completely immerse ourselves in the things of this world, to an extent, we must be aware of what is happening around us (John 15:19).

In the end, whether social media, A.I., or another avenue of technological advancement, we must prepare to evaluate what constitutes effectively using these systems to advance the Kingdom of God. Likewise, we will encounter grey areas and significant problems that God will help us avoid (Proverbs 16:9). Nevertheless, over time, God will give us the clarity we need to make prudent choices in light of His guidance in our lives (John 14:26).

Given that we are all imperfect and make mistakes, forgiveness is a crucial part of all our lives. It is essential for cultivating, navigating, and enduring a long-term relationship. If we cannot forgive one another, we fail to demonstrate the forgiveness Jesus Christ offers us (Matthew 6:14-15). Furthermore, we hinder our well-being by harboring negative emotions such as anger or bitterness (Ephesians 4:26). Showing Christ-like character involves loving others so that we overlook things that may offend others (Proverbs 19:11). As a bonus, we enjoy God’s peace for demonstrating self-control in avoiding unnecessary disputes and extending forgiveness when appropriate.

Forgiving others who have wronged us can be difficult, but pardoning ourselves can be even more challenging for many people. Instead of carrying the weight of our past transgressions with us, we must surrender those to God (1 Peter 5:6-7). If you have sought forgiveness from God and the party you have wronged when possible and applicable, the next step is to forgive yourself (Hebrews 12:14). God does not want us to live in condemnation (Romans 8:1). He wants us to enjoy freedom. No one benefits from us carrying around the guilt of past sins with them. Embrace that Jesus Christ loves you so much that He paid the price for those mistakes once and for all on the cross (1 Corinthians 6:20, John 3:16).

One of the descriptors for love is that it keeps no record of right and wrong (1 Corinthians 13:4-8). While some things may take time to let go, if we claim to love someone, we should aspire to avoid record-keeping as much as possible. I am not advocating that, as Christians, we should allow people to trample over us and avoid standing up for ourselves. However, we need to exercise discretion and recognize that if this is part of God’s description of love, it merits our undivided attention and obedience. After all, if love covers a multitude of sins, it is certainly capable of helping us when it is time to forgive family, friends, or even strangers as needed throughout our lives (1 Peter 4:8).

It is hard when the one who offended us does not try to apologize. But that may be because the offender did not realize their actions hurt us. However, if Jesus Christ has instructed us to forgive liberally, who are we not to do so (Matthew 18:21-22)? We must overcome obstacles that impede this process, such as pride or stubbornness. It takes a certain degree of humility to confess that we were hurt and to communicate those concerns to the one who offended us.

One way to help you figure out whether or not you have finally forgiven someone for a significant offense is to pray for them. If you can ask God to bless them with His grace and meet their needs, I think it is safe to say you have effectively forgiven them. Of course, you may still remember what they did wrong to you because it was a considerable offense in your eyes, but eventually, you let it go. Sometimes, experiencing something negative can serve as a valuable learning experience or defense mechanism. In addition, it may assist you in preventing similar incidents from happening to you in the future. Recalling the offense should not be something we dwell upon, especially if it triggers anger or bitterness toward them.

Ultimately, forgiveness is an essential part of the Christian life. Jesus Christ is the only One you can count on, never to wrong you. But, unfortunately, anything and everyone else can hurt us from time to time. In every relationship, whether with our spouse, family, friends, or strangers, we must learn how to navigate this reality. We tend not to have high expectations from strangers, so their mistakes or wrongdoings usually don’t affect us as much as those closest to us.

On the flip side, those close to us may hurt us significantly because of how highly we value them, especially when we get so comfortable with them that we take them for granted. As a result, we may be more respectful and considerate of people we hardly know by comparison. If we recall this, we can avoid becoming careless with how we treat those we love the most and treat them with the respect they deserve. We all need to take note of this and improve as God empowers us to do so to maintain harmony in our lives with those we hold closest.

May God help us become better forgivers and people who proactively prevent unnecessary disputes. With this attitude, we will be sure to maintain peace, order, and love in our relationships. Likewise, let us be patient with each other and recognize forgiveness can be a process that takes time. Chances are the more significant the offense, the longer the road to recovery. But it is a road that needs to be traveled whether complete reconciliation is a possibility or the goal becomes parting ways at peace that each person has done their part to move on in due time.

Even when adversity comes knocking at our front door, we remain confident that God will help us to persevere over any storm life might throw in our direction. Over time we come to the realization that God never lets us down. On the contrary, He has a perfect track record that showcases a level of love beyond our capacity to fathom with our finite minds.

Who better to trust with everything than the One who knows us better than we know ourselves? After all, He is omnipotent (all-powerful), omniscient (all-knowing), and omnipresent (everywhere at all times). Add to these realities that God has His children’s best interests at heart in light of eternity. It should be intuitive at this point for us to realize that there is no one better in the universe to rest our faith and surrender our fears and anxieties. As such, we must rest assured that He always faithfully protects and guides us in the direction that best suits His perfect will and our well-being.

Another advantage of placing our complete faith in God is experiencing His peace. Sometimes we attempt to take things into our hands rather than pray for God’s help. These are not mutually exclusive endeavors. In many cases, praying and taking action would be wise. However, we overestimate our influence on our immediate circumstances and underestimate the power of prayer. Sometimes the best course of action is to surrender something outside our control to God in prayer and rest in His sovereignty (John 16:33). When the situation calls for it, this demonstrates our faith in God to handle our problem. Furthermore, we welcome His peace to offer us the antidote to our burdensome worries (Philippians 4:6, Romans 5:1).

As believers, God has created us in His image (Genesis 1:27). Each of us is an ambassador of Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20). We are also friends of God rather than at enmity with Him when we walk in obedience to His Word (John 15:15)! Our ultimate purpose is to bring God glory (1 Corinthians 6:20, Isaiah 43:7). The execution of fulfilling our calling varies from person to person. Still, all believers are a part of His plans for us as we are members of the body of believers serving different roles that complement one another (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). When we have faith in these elements of our foundation and purpose, it should boost our confidence and develop our courage.

The Bible provides a steady supply of strength that reminds us of God’s faithfulness and love in the lives of believers before us. Knowing that flawed men and women, just like you and I, were used by God for the fulfillment of monumental achievements in the eyes of God should increase our faith and eliminate our worries. For example, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob parted the Red Sea to save His people under the leadership of Moses (Exodus 14:26-29), protected Daniel from being devoured in the lion’s den (Daniel 6:23), and delivered Shadrack, Meschac, and Abed-Nego from the fiery furnace (Daniel 3:19-25). So likewise, God is with His children today as with our ancestors (Romans 8:31-39).

If we reflect on our lives, we can refer to God’s consistent protection, provision, and providence to remember his unfailing reliability (Philippians 4:19). Do not forget the numerous times you, your family, or friends prayed, and God was faithful. It may not have always agreed with our perspective or timing, but often we are privileged to take notice that His timing was infinitely superior anyway (1 John 5:14-15). After all, it would be a tragedy if God gave us a blessing that we were not yet prepared to receive due to a lack of character development, preparedness, or appreciation.

Instead, He lovingly defers those blessings to the correct time after we have learned to handle them and experienced the contrast of not having them so that we might rightfully understand how outstanding the opportunity truly is (Proverbs 13:12). If we are honest with ourselves, some of God’s most excellent answers to prayer are those He lovingly does not provide for us because He knows what we need better than we do. In those cases, we should aspire to be equally thankful even when we do not understand why the door closed unexpectedly, and things did not pan out in the direction we foresaw.

The final aspect of faithfulness that carries one of the most remarkable benefits to all of us is God’s gift of community with fellow believers (Hebrews 10:25, 1 Thessalonians 5:11). God has given each of us a consistent desire to pursue fellowship with like-minded believers. As a result, not only do we receive benefits such as encouragement, accountability, and support from such circles, but we are also enabled to invest our time, energy, and effort in being there for others.

There may be seasons where we require one end more than another, but in their time, we all need to lean on one another the way God designed it to be. When we share our struggles, others can relate, offer advice, or pray for us. Likewise, we can share testimonies in our lives where God came through for us, and God’s answers to our prayers can strengthen the faith of our Christian peers (2 Timothy 1:8). Such actions can alleviate our fears and anxieties by focusing on God’s work rather than overthinking, which may lead to fear or anxiety.

Some worries and concerns should not be on our radar because they are far less of an issue than we make them out to be and often do not even materialize (Matthew 6:31-34). Instead of spending time in our heads about such circumstances, we are often better suited to pouring into the lives of others. Focusing outside ourselves and being there for other believers may be just what the doctor ordered to offer us a renewed perspective.

May God bless each of us with a desire to pursue Him and His will wholeheartedly (Jeremiah 29:13). Let us not allow the whims of fear or anxiety dictate our actions in life. Instead, let us build one another up in faith, knowing that God will never abandon or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5-6). We can trust Him to be there when life throws us more than we can handle. Submit your cares and worries to Him, rest in His sovereignty, and pursue the calling He instills in your heart to answer (1 Peter 5:7). There is no better place to be than at the center of God’s will for your life.

One of the most significant blessings stemming from Christian hospitality is bridging gaps of understanding across racial, cultural, and socioeconomic divides. It allows us to share God’s love and connect with people we might not have encountered otherwise. There is no telling how offering a listening ear, sharing a meal, or offering a kind word could bless someone. Imagine the impact of these types of actions throughout a lifetime. Of course, not all of us can share this gift in the same manner, but perhaps we may feel compelled by God to do so uniquely. It is also possible to improve how we do so over time, which may drive some of us to practice taking such actions frequently. Inspiring other recipients in our path to pay it forward in their walk with God can yield eternal dividends (Matthew 25:35-40).

There is no better example of these actions than those found in our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Therefore, if we become more like Him in our sanctification, it would make sense to follow His example. For instance, he demonstrated the unfathomable humility of washing the feet of the disciples (John 13:4-15). The lowest servant in the household was typically responsible for such a duty, yet the God of the Universe willingly did this so that we would do the same for one another. He also cared for and healed the sick (Mark 1:40-45), welcomed and blessed the children (Matthew 19:13-15), reached out to societies outcasts (Luke 19:1-10), and spoke to a large crowd who He also fed instead of turning them away (Matthew 14:13-21). By any measure, Jesus Christ consistently demonstrated hospitality and His love through His actions. Therefore, we should follow His example and practice hospitality to the people we encounter.

Our motivation for every action we take is critical to take into account. Concerning Christian hospitality, we can find a sense of satisfaction intrinsic to such steps. After all, we know giving is a greater blessing than receiving (Acts 20:35). If we take action from a disposition of love, generosity, humility, and genuine desire to be a blessing to other people, we will find joy intrinsically and inextricably linked to the kind of actions we take. We recognize that God gave us all the strength, energy, resources, and capabilities required to provide a helping hand to those who need it. While we might be in a position to provide help now, there is no telling when we might be the ones who require assistance ourselves. Such a reality check affirms our vulnerability and humbles us to recall that we rely on God for everything. After all, all good and perfect gifts come from Him (James 1:17). Our ability to serve others is a privilege, not a burden.

It is vital to all of us that we do not over-extend ourselves and risk burning out in our service. We need self-awareness and discipline to take a step back when we require a proper dose of rest (Exodus 34:21). God encourages us to rest at least one day a week for a good reason. When we rest, we demonstrate our faith in God’s provision. Instead of trying to take everything into our hands, we surrender that control to God in faith (1 Peter 5:7). It is a blessing from God to enjoy these breaks because it is easy to get caught up in the race of our daily routines. We do not want to make productivity an idol, and we should learn to identify when to take a step back for prolonged rest as God calls us to do so. Consider how even small packets of rest in stillness build our trust in God. Take confidence that He is working things behind the scenes of our lives in our favor as He sees fit (Psalm 46:10). I recognize this is a challenging feat for those of us who have a strong work ethic and tend towards uncompromising diligence. Still, we would be foolish to neglect to embrace God’s gift (Galatians 6:9).

Ultimately it is a beautiful desire to do God’s work consistently. After all, our capacity to do so is directly enabled and directed by His providence. As long as we maintain a good balance between serving others and attending to our needs when appropriate, we will maximize our likelihood of succeeding. That way, we can demonstrate hospitality the way God intends. If you burn out from any excess, it is unhelpful to anyone, no matter how good your intentions may be.

We must recognize our limitations and remember that God supplies all our needs. I would suggest this is a skill for us to master because we live in a world that often promotes hustling and productivity to the extreme. Take care of yourself and open the door for your loved ones to offer a helping hand on occasion. There is no shame in it, and none of us is as invincible as we may think. These seasons take humility, but the better we get at correctly identifying these dynamics, the less frequently we will struggle to rest, recover, and return to effectively being God’s hands and feet (1 Corinthians 12:12-26). We all have different thresholds for this, so there is no one-size-fits-all answer, but I encourage you to learn your limits and draw boundaries to protect your well-being accordingly.

I pray that today’s article will compel you to demonstrate hospitality and seek God’s guidance on how He may desire you to do so. May God receive all the glory for all that we do. We are the salt of the earth and serve as a light in a dark world (Matthew 5:13-16). Let us not forget the urgency in pursuing God’s design for us in supporting one another in the process. None of us can ever go wrong by whole-heartedly, prayerfully, and humbly seeking God’s will. Keep fighting the good fight of faith and surrender to Him daily (1 Timothy 6:12). There is no better place to be than at the center of God’s will for you.

As with many other things in life, exercising moderation and finding the balance that best suits you should be your consistent aspiration. I would venture to say there is no one size fits all answer regarding the frequency of seclusion versus the time we spend with people because we are not duplicates of one another. There are also many moving parts to consider before establishing the pattern that best suits you. For instance, some of us are introverted by nature and will gravitate towards more independence to attain rest and peace. Meanwhile, extroverted people might derive comfort and joy from maximizing time spent with people. Examples of additional factors to help determine the best balance for you include the following:

• Current energy levels.
• Knowing our limits (i.e., stamina, stress, physical needs, etc.)
• Patterns of behavior. (i.e., recent activities, exposure of the senses to stimuli or lack thereof, etc.)

Recognizing these variables and considering the many that remain unmentioned above makes it challenging to determine optimal circumstances for ourselves, let alone for people in the aggregate. Interestingly, solitude provides us ample time to reflect and grow to learn what we need, want, and hope to achieve. However, liabilities like loneliness or depression can creep in if we over-emphasize it at the expense of spending time with loved ones.

Many of us, including those who identify as introverts, conceded that the recent epidemic we collectively faced stretched our affinity for alone time. Despite the connectivity technological advances provided through social media and apps like Zoom, almost everyone I recall speaking with afterward was thankful to reconnect with people again. It is not a stretch to conclude that parts of our physical, mental, and spiritual wellness rely on seeing people face-to-face and interacting beyond our computer screens. There is no denying that we are all social on some level. It is just a matter of determining where each of us lands on that spectrum that helps us pinpoint the proper balance of solitude and community that works for us accordingly.

As believers, this should indicate how vital it is to be the salt of the earth (Matthew 5:13-16). Sharing God’s love with those we encounter may seem like a small, unnecessary, or even inconsequential gesture to us at the moment. However, these moments have the power to change the trajectory of people’s lives. We have no idea what some people have faced throughout the day, let alone their lives before we run into them. Opening someone’s door, lending a helping hand, or sharing God’s Word could lead to a tipping point in the right direction (Philippians 2:1-4). A lifetime of acts such as these may translate to eternal blessing for them and eternal reward for us (Matthew 6:19-21). We might even experience the privilege of leading some to come to saving faith in Jesus Christ and avoid eternity in hell (Romans 1:16, Isaiah 55:11)!

Balancing intentionality with our solitude and immersing ourselves in our local Church community assists us in overcoming the numerous distractions that contend for our attention. Unfortunately, it is easy to get caught up in the motions and forget to be intentional with our resources, time, and energy (1 Peter 4:10, Luke 16:1-13). Looking for the thrill of our next moment of instant gratification, we may resort to things like excessive social media, pornography, drugs, sex, alcohol, and so forth. These can develop into harmful patterns of behavior and even sinful addictions if left unchecked. Such dead-end roads reward us with unearned, momentary dopamine releases that feel extremely good for the moment and leave behind a wake of pain, stress, anxiety, worry, or even depression to cope with later (Romans 6:20-23). If behaviors like these become habitual, they typically motivate us to pursue more extreme measures involving a higher quantity and extended duration of exposure to acquire similar highs.

Thankfully, when we fight alongside other believers and encourage one another to overcome such setbacks, we can develop accountability and extra lines of defense before these detrimental behaviors get out of control (1 Peter 5:8-9). We must avoid the traps above and instead enjoy God-given pleasures responsibly in their time while we repent of the sinful ones with God’s help (Acts 3:19). For instance, we can enjoy sex in a marriage relationship between a man and woman with God’s blessing. In contrast, outside of marriage, it is a sinful endeavor. We must refrain from settling for the fool’s gold the devil has to offer if we want to experience God’s best. After all, He is the One Who invented sex. It is worth noting some things are intrinsically wrong. For example, pornography is immoral, and we should fight to avoid it consistently (Matthew 5:28). Thankfully, when we know Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we can cling to His promises to us. He has set us free from slavery to such sins (Romans 6:20-22). If we reach out to Him for help, He will assist us. We can rest assured He has won the war over sin and death (1 Corinthians 15:55-57). Thus, we no longer need to live in condemnation (Romans 8:1).

Whether in a period of solitude or with your loved ones, remember you can always reach out to them for help. There is a reason God has empowered you to help others, and I would bet that those you have invested in will gladly be there for you when you need it most. If all else fails, God Himself will always be with you and never leave or forsake you (Isaiah 41:10, Deuteronomy 31:6, Hebrews 13:5-8). Take comfort in His presence and provisions today!

“19 For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win the more; 20 and to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews; to those who are under the law, as under the law, that I might win those who are under the law; 21 to those who are without law, as without law (not being without law toward God, but under law toward Christ), that I might win those who are without law; 22 to the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. 23 Now this I do for the gospel’s sake, that I may be partaker of it with you.”

1 Corinthians 9:19-23 (NKJV)

In consideration of eternity, God will generously reward those who have the heart of a servant and, as a byproduct, often live for the well-being of others (Mark 9:35). Our key text in 1 Corinthians 9:19-23 reveals to us some strategic insight that would help us make this a reality. Instead of constantly figuring out how situations can play out to our advantage, we should consider how we can most effectively bless others. The text also reminds us how adaptable a servant of God can be, as long as they do not compromise their integrity. It is not typically something we gravitate to naturally, but rather, something we continuously rely on the Holy Spirit to facilitate. However, as with an exercise routine, an extended period of practice evangelizing the lost and discipling existing believers may inspire us to pursue it more diligently and frequently. In turn, this will undoubtedly win souls to Jesus Christ and yield eternal dividends in the process (Proverbs 11:30). God’s Word does not return void, whether in sharing it with others or applying it to our lives (Isaiah 55:11).

One critical thing to take hold of in our adaptability to others is to ensure we do not lose sight of our Biblical values. For instance, if you were to step out and evangelize in the public square for a long period without nourishing yourself mentally and spiritually with the Word of God, it is only a matter of time before you have a head-on collision with compromise. God designed us for fellowship with other believers for many reasons. One of the key reasons is that we are not invincible and highly susceptible to the world’s influence if we neglect the spiritual sustenance we all need. If unchecked, our integrity and core values will slowly erode (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Naturally, this calls for a balance of stepping out of our comfort zone to reach out to the lost while making sure we consistently go back to our Churches, fellowship, and Bible study for refreshment. Concerning discipling, mentoring, and setting an example for other Christians, we must also ensure that we are in a position to contribute. Finally, to serve effectively, we must rely on God to keep us in a healthy place in our walk to help others and avoid over-extending ourselves. It is reasonable to learn to say “no” when we know we need time or space to say “yes” to God-ordained opportunities. There is a reason why the second greatest commandment encourages us to “love our neighbors as ourselves” and not “love our neighbors more than ourselves.”

Once you are in a good place and your immediate loved ones are taken care of, you can step out to answer God’s call for your beloved neighbors. You and I would not be as effective for God’s Kingdom if we reach our tipping point for burnout. You will not be doing anyone any favors by trying to carry all the world’s burdens on your shoulders alone. Remember, God has called us to Christ-likeness in our sanctification journey, not to function as Jesus Christ. We are more than capable of making mistakes and letting each other down. Surrender your cares and anxieties to God (1 Peter 5:7). He will make it clear when it is your turn to step in and make the contributions He has placed in your heart to share with His people and the world at large.

In serving others, we should also be cautious not to get addicted to their approval. When we over-emphasize the well-being of others to our detriment, we can impose unnecessary hurdles upon ourselves. Do not let the applause or criticism of others carry more weight than it ought to. Indeed, we can all agree that certain loved ones in our lives can genuinely encourage or deter us immensely because of our relationship with them. However, ideally, this circle of trusted family and select friends must have merited that trust over a significant time. Otherwise, we risk allowing too many people undue influence on us. In short, nobody should be able to make or break us outside of God Himself ultimately.

If we are honest with ourselves, we can probably remember at least a couple of instances where we put our foot in our mouths as we perhaps unintentionally discouraged, angered, or offended someone we love. Therefore, while there is a time and place to offer constructive criticism, we must be careful with the delivery and cautious about providing it with truth in love (Ephesians 4:14-15). As such, seeking this balance and being particularly selective with offering unsolicited opinions is crucial to avoid unwarranted conflict.

Surely we must rely on God and give ourselves and others the grace needed to align ourselves with His will. May God bless us with the discernment and wisdom to strike the proper balance between adaptability and integrity, Kingdom building with acquisition of Biblical sustenance, and exercising caution in delivering and reacting to constructive criticism.

There may have come times in our past when an individual or group of people wronged us, and it had a substantial negative impact. Under these circumstances, we must forgive them. God has graciously and mercifully forgiven us countless times (Matthew 6:14-15). Who are we not to extend that same courtesy to other people? God calls us even to love our enemies (Matthew 5:43-48). There is no room for grudges, unforgiveness, and bitterness in the life of a believer. Life is far too short for us not to move on from these events. Of course, there may be circumstances where the grievance might frankly be unforgettable. We may even be prudent in ensuring that we do not put ourselves in a position to be taken advantage of again the same way. I think that this protocol would not be mutually exclusive to forgiveness. In other words, we can both forgive someone and avoid allowing them an opportunity to hurt us again. When we face these kinds of issues, we need to exercise discernment. Furthermore, we would be wise to ask God to enlighten us in prayer to figure out how to handle each situation one at a time (James 1:5).

A lot of us tend to steer away from any semblance of conflict. When it does not seem necessary, I tend to do the same. However, it takes confrontation to move beyond an issue in many instances. Maybe we have someone we need to reach to clear the air or set the record straight. Even if we decide this is the right course of action, it will suit us well to tame our temper. For instance, we can make sure we are not emotionally charged and try our best to empathize with their perspective before we engage them. The last thing we want to do is compound the problem with a new argument and cause more problems because we failed to exercise self-control in a critical moment. While this approach may not address the issue exactly when we face it, we are not sweeping it under the rug either. The last thing we want to do is bury our problems, arguments, and conflicts one at a time until, one day, things get out of hand. In this sense, I think there is merit to facing each challenge as it comes rather than allowing the accumulation of more minor problems to become a bigger one. Otherwise, petty issues that we failed to address in the past can potentially catch us with an unpleasant surprise in the future (Ephesians 4:26-31).

Another aspect of this we often face as believers has to do with our past sins. Instead of carrying that weight around with us, we should remind ourselves of God’s forgiveness. If God forgives us, who are we not to forgive ourselves for our shortcomings? If you still face the residual guilt of a sin God forgave a long time ago, you are doing yourself a disservice and carrying around an unnecessary burden (Psalm 55:22). If we already surrendered that at the foot of the cross, it has no business in our lives. If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). There is no condemnation to those in Christ Jesus who walk according to the Spirit instead of the flesh (Romans 8:1). Take solace in God’s Word in times of trouble and submit your past along with its problems to Jesus Christ (1 Peter 5:7). None of us is perfect. We have all fallen short of God’s glory (Romans 3:23). God’s grace should not serve as a license to continue sinning, but we can trust that His grace, mercy, and love meet us amid our shortcomings when we need them most (Romans 6:1-4).

Do not give the adversary a foothold in your life. If you feel the temptation to rush into sin or make a hasty decision, it is not from God. God provides us with ways of escape from temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13). You are not alone in the battles you face. Whether seen or unseen, make sure you rely on God rather than your willpower to persevere. Our human will is limited and will eventually fail us (Proverbs 3:5-6). This reality makes it essential to rely on God to provide us the strength, wisdom, and discretion among His numerous other provisions. Some other examples include His full armor, prayer, and worship. These blessings empower us to cling to Him and experience victory by His power in times of distress. After all, apart from Jesus Christ operating in, with, and through us, we could never accomplish anything of eternal value. But with Him, we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:37), and God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:8-10). May He always receive all the glory for the victories we experience (1 Chronicles 29:11).

In other instances, the issue may be to come to terms with the loss of a loved one. There comes the point where after a season of grieving, we must accept that they have passed away and continue to live our lives (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). Any setback we face, no matter how big or small it is in the eyes of others, may pose a significant problem to us. However, regardless of whether others understand our difficulty, we cannot allow anything to compromise the mission God has placed in our hearts to fulfill here on earth. It would be an injustice in the eyes of God to live indefinitely with a disposition of anger, bitterness, or grudge to the detriment of God’s plan for us (Ephesians 4:31-32). While we should never minimize our battles or belittle others, it is also a significant error and threat to our well-being to allow an unreasonable amount of time to elapse with this kind of mindset. Of course, this is a subjective matter, and we do well to consider it on a case-by-case basis. Preferably with a firm reliance on God, prayer, and His supernatural strength to help us overcome the circumstances at hand.

Thinking about the frailty of life encourages me to make sure I am in right standing with God and redeem the time accordingly (Ephesians 5:15-16). It may also provoke a sense of obligation in us to reach out to our loved ones with the truth of the Gospel (Matthew 28:16-20). While we cannot force anyone to come to saving faith, our responsibility to share God’s Word includes reaching out to family and friends, too, not only those that show up at our Churches on Sundays. Finally, if we acknowledge that time is scarce, it will give us that sense of urgency we desperately require to take action in terms of evangelism. The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are indeed few (Matthew 9:35-38). Every effort we make for the glory of God, and the building of His Kingdom is crucial for us to pursue.

I find it helpful to remind myself to take breaks to step back from a constant cycle of works for God and enjoy leisure time. While it can be enriching to serve God consistently, we need to recognize our limitations and avoid burnout to be most effective. As such, no matter your calling, it is critical to get ample rest and have a firm understanding of what you can take on without overexerting. I love to write, but it even mentions specifically in God’s Word that, “In the writing of many books there is no end, and much study is wearisome to the flesh (Ecclesiastes 12:12).” Suffice it to say that if we take care of ourselves and go back to diligently pursuing God’s plans, we will do much better. I, for one, had to learn this lesson the hard way, but I have since learned that I can do a great deal better in service to God by balancing this out according to my needs.

We all have varying strengths and weaknesses too, so this is often a matter of getting better acquainted with ourselves and essentially how God has wired us to operate. For example, you may thrive in getting up early, having a schedule set in stone, and working on a highly defined program. On the other hand, others of us may do better with setting daily priorities that we tackle in a less detailed approach as far as the timetable is concerned. Many people firmly believe that breakfast is the most critical meal of the day. Meanwhile, I skip breakfast daily and implement intermittent fasting with my workout routine. Due to these dynamics, there is no one size fits all approach to successfully managing our daily agenda.

In any case, depending on your line of work and particular responsibilities, this may not always be a luxury you can offer yourself. That said, you can better cope with your schedule when you know how you excel most of the time. Some employers may even be glad to adjust your hours if you make a good case for improving your productivity under certain conditions. In the end, I would suggest that you try to get to know yourself before you experience burnout, anxiety, or excessive stress. It is better to cross out a few items from your to-do list than to do them all and be out of commission for a while because you were overzealous.

In the fast-paced world, we live, it is easy to get caught up in the future at the expense of appreciating the present. That said, I am not knocking preparation for the future. On the contrary, I think that is a wise thing to do. Goals and plans on how to execute those goals, and having a rough idea of where you want to be 1, 3, 5, and 10 years from now makes perfect sense. It is good to have a general vision for the course of your life, yet always remain flexible to what surprises God may have in store for you. I refer to constantly thinking about what is coming overshadowing your enjoyment today (Matthew 6:34).

One practical way I employ to do this is to make it a point to minimize my phone use when I am around family and friends. I want to give them the gift of my attention and enjoy their company. This minor adjustment can make a huge difference, and your loved ones will take notice of it. Instagram and Facebook will be there tomorrow. I know I check them too often, but setting them aside when I work on writing, editing videos, and sleep has been a blessing to me for a while now. Instead of provoking myself to scroll endlessly, it helps me improve my focus and attention span. Not having my phone on my bedside or putting it in sleep mode, and being disciplined about not touching it, has enhanced the quality of my sleep. There is still a ton of room for me to improve in this one area, but I find these incremental adjustments work well.

It does not take revolutionary changes with extreme effort on an isolated day to improve your life. Instead of drastic adjustments, small changes in the right direction are less intimidating to implement. If you had never been hiking or mountain climbing, but someone told you that you would need to climb Mt. Everest in a week, you would probably find it amusing and dismiss it as a joke. Yet, some who have made it one of their life goals decided that reaching the apex would be a manageable challenge and completed that monumental task. To them, it was a matter of preparation for the future. They acclimated to that extreme by executing a series of more minor challenges that eventually prepared them to tackle it.

You and I may not care to climb Mt. Everest, but I know that each of us tends to have desires that are crucial for us to obtain. It could be anything, but it may involve personal fitness, career goals, or a desire to learn more about God’s Word, to name a few possibilities. These will not achieve themselves, so we need to plan to make these dreams a reality. They also necessitate a certain degree of desire that excels the pain or sacrifice involved with their achievement. For example, if I value my leisure to a fault, I may not be willing to make the sacrifices of going back to school or taking an extra training course to improve my career prospects. Likewise, I may want to lose weight and get into great shape, but if the reason for doing so isn’t adequately compelling, I will not get there.

Furthermore, once you get there, you need extra motivation to maintain that level of excellence. No matter what, preparation for the future is only helpful if we also have a plan to get there, a plan to stay there, and a reason for getting it done. Otherwise, it will go in the basket with all of the other New Year’s resolutions that we, and others, may have made but never executed. So, New Year’s resolutions or not, let this year be different and push hard until you achieve your breakthrough. Most importantly, make sure that breakthrough counts for the glory of God. If your goal does not offer eternal value, perhaps you should evaluate whether it is still worth making. Ask yourself, “Can I do X to the glory of God?” If not, maybe you would make better use of your time applying your efforts elsewhere (Colossians 3:23-24).